So I have been wondering…

Is it true that the doctor can never heal himself?

Disclaimer- In this post, you=me

I mean, we all know that it is SO much easier to give wonderful advise to others than it is to listen and follow those brilliant words yourself.  But it is possible isn’t it?  After all, the advise and words we give to others are usually based off of experiences we have had ourselves in the past, and what you think you would do if the same situation occurred in the future because of what has happened in the past.  That is how we have foundation and justification to give advise to others to begin with.  If you had no way to relate to the situation, what right to you have to be giving advise in the first place?  So I wonder than, where the missed connection lies in being able to take your own advise.  You know your words are valid, they come from the right place, and you truely believe that they can be of some help to whomever you give them to.  You can relate to that person on some level, giving you the ability to come up with valid suggestions or help, but maybe that’s it.  Maybe you cant bring yourself to the same level as that person, therefore your words are not valid for your situation.  When it comes to your life, its always “not quite the same” isn’t it?  You get so hung up on nit picky details so that you can be separated from everyone else.  Your situation is different, so no one can help you.  Ohhh woe is me!

DAMN YOU VICTIM IN THE 12th HOUSE!!!!

I suppose that’s why I have difficulty taking the advise of others as well.

Ok Lara, here is your challenge for the …. well, however long it takes you to fix yourself doctor.

When you give advise to others, apply it to yourself and use it.  Just for shits and giggles, and lets see what happens ok?  Perhaps you can try relating to others more.  You are just as human as anyone else. Minor technicalities make you no better or worse than anyone else.  Time to get off your high horse and join the human race.

PS: Eek!  That was crazy, did that all just come out of me? …. dude

Winter of Positive Manifestation

So… we had what was supposed to be the summer of love.  Which actually turned out to be the summer of false love.

We rolled on into what turned out to be the Autumn of Love (more or less, this is highly disputable)

As winter starts to creep its way in, I have deemed this coming season the winter of positive manifestation.

No, the seasons don’t need to labeled.  In fact its kind of silly and cliche to do so.

However when you put words to something that already is, that confirmation helps motivate and spur on the change that has already begun.  I know these past few months have completely turned things upside down and inside out for me, and I think the same has been true for many others.

Well, Mercury Retrograde has given us the time to think on this ginormous shift that has and still is occurring, and with reflection we can walk away with a plan.  A plan is step one towards manifesting what it is you most desire, or need.

Its time to start listing again.  WiseGoddess helped me see this with her 90 day challenge, however i had a difficult time with putting the idea of time barriers on things.  90 days was too much for somethings, and no where near enough for others.  These new lists, they are lifetime goals.  They are what I want now, what I have to do tomorrow, what I hope to happen in a year. These are business plans, creative ideas, what to wear tomorrow.  These are how much I love the people I am surrounded by, and how I deeply want to continue to bond and grow with them.

Write it down, get it out into the universe so that other perceptive beings will pick up on your receptive energies and be willing to give and help move you along towards the finish line.

Yay for positive manifestation, because I control my own happiness, and I choose to be in rapture.